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When we meet the right person to love, when we are at the right place at the right time, which is chance. When you meet, someone you are attracted to, that is not a choice. That is chance.

Being caught up in a moment and there is many couples who get together because of this are not a choice. That is also a chance. The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?

That is when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling. If you decide to love a person, even with his faults, that is not a chance. That is choice.

When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that is choice. Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate is, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that is choice.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. However, true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make. Regarding soul mates, there is a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this: “Fate brings you together, but it is still up to you to make it happen.

I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. Nevertheless, it is still up to you to make the choice if you are going to do something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but loving and staying with our soul mates is still a choice we have to make. We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love…BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly.

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